Yesterday, I told my roommate that I was going to make beef stroganoff for dinner; we'd talked about this previously and she seemed all for it. So now I have all of the supplies I need to cook dinner for two people.
Today, I come home at around 3 to find that a friend of hers came over; whether she knew about this before the fact, I have no idea. To further add to the confusion, within the hour, her mother had also arrived unexpectedly (to me. Apparently Teresa knew about this on Thursday, but neglected to mention it to me).
Problem number one: I probably have enough extra supplies for the extra people, but I don't think I should be expected to cater to these new people if I wasn't prepared to do so or informed of the situation at all.
Problem number two: We moved into this apartment on Monday. Her mother (and sometimes her father) were an ever-constant presence on Monday and Tuesday, both roommate and parents were gone on Wednesday, but then they all came back on Thursday night. Yesterday was the first time my roommate and I had been alone in this apartment, and I thought maybe we had gotten rid of her mother for the time being, but here she comes showing up again and doesn't seem to even really have a purpose for being here other than just wanting to "hang out".
I don't want her mother here anymore. I don't feel like I have a single shred of privacy in my own apartment except if I barricade myself into my room, and that's not cool.
I want to know when people are going to be here.
And I definitely wish she had mentioned this potential visit to me yesterday when I had discussed making dinner in the first place.
I was already angry today due to situations beyond my control, and I really do not need this right now.
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